A very clear language in our human constitucvión is physical contact. We just have to go to medical statistics to find that babies who have been embraced, holding, etc. have a greater emotional balance for those who have been alone for long periods of time sde. In the same marriage, of course, physical contact is very important. For some it is the primary way they feel loved.
When it comes to physical contact of course include sex,
but not just talking about it. The way we express affection
be determined by who we love. It is not what we want but
what the other wants.
tion illustrates - I remember in a celebration that few guests chanted
the hosts "How to kiss ..." To which I agreed. A
It happened that the request be extended to these couples who were with the hosts. Hence, the "Iberian macho" wanted to show his character
passionate and front of a timid wife, the only thing that showed was their lack of consideration, and after the kiss almost forced the wife cheeks touched with an expression of discomfort with how her husband had subjected the face .
That kiss but express love and be received as was a
cheap bravado driven away his wife and insulted in a manner
important. This can also happen without people in front or persons
tell us "to kiss."
Sometimes it is true that the need for male sexual activity
can produce behaviors that are really harsh and misguided and
can produce a sense of "sex object." But often overlooked
putting his hand on the shoulder, when you rub passes to the other, the
sit together to watch television, taking his hand warmly, kissed the
leaving home, etc.
We are all aware of the importance of sex in couples.
But when this is the main way in which one of the two express
understands love, it is wasteful to spend time getting to know and develop
a good physical relationship.
Moreover children can still have this need to be
holding, cuddling, etc.
What happens when someone refuses to hand us?
Crisis and physical contact
At a time of crisis, we hugged each another. Why?
because it is actually a time when the words do not serve to
communicate the depth of our feelings. Even more for whom physical contact
is the primary way of perceiving affection, words are not enough
. Just hugs and physical contact supersede the need and
remember for a long time.
Consideration general .-
When affection we need is understanding .... there that need.
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